6 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Turn Your Summer Fling Into A LDR
Maybe it’s the great vibes we get from the freedom that summer brings. Maybe it’s the fact that there are endless possibilities of exciting events and parties to attend. Either way, there’s just something sexy in the air during the summer.
That being said, we’ve all experienced that one summer when you met someone you instantly hit it off with. The two of you spent the romantic summer nights cuddling by the fire, splashing each other in the pool and drinking margaritas on the beach.
For those three months of the warm sun beating on your skin, everything seems perfect. It’s almost as though time has stopped and you’re just being young, wild and free.
That is, until the weather starts to cool down and fall is upon you.
Then, you’re left with the big question: Where the hell is this summer romance headed? Especially when you and your summer fling live in different places.
You start to ask yourself whether or not this “relationship” is just that or if it’s just a summer fling. You might be someone who wants it to go further or you might have just been having fun.
When you’re faced with what seems like the question of the summer, there are a few things to consider that might make your decision to make your relationship into an official long-distance relationship or not a bit easier.
1. What kind of plans do you make together?
Think about the type of plans the two of you made together. Did you spend more time in groups or separately? Did he always want to be out drinking with a huge group of friends? Was he cool spending some downtime with you staying in for the night and enjoying a nice night of Netflix?
To me, it’s important that someone I’m about to enter a relationship with — especially if it would be long distance — will make time for just the two of us as well as balancing time with friends and hanging out as a group.
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